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Why did my ex move on so quickly?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:37

Why did my ex move on so quickly?

Such as, if your ex moved on fast because they never actually loved you;

What I suspect you really want to know, is one or more specific questions.

Of the ones I was able to talk to about it all rationally later, some of them admitted they “used” a new “hook up” the same way some people use drugs, to dull the upset over our breakup; some said (perhaps as revenge) that I was easy to replace; some said they just got lucky. Most didn’t stay with the quick replacement, but a few even “panic married” the replacement, as part of being upset about the breakup.

Why doesn't speeding significantly decrease one’s commute time? I've done a lot of road trips and driving and have experimented by increasing speed by 10–20%, but somehow this never equates to arriving 20% sooner, even on clear roads.

or if they moved on fast because they can control their emotions like a simple light bulb;

I know from my own “misadventures” in love, that my ex’s were able to move on quickly because they were more attractive than I am, and far less shy, and sometimes because they were far less picky than I am.

or if they moved on quickly because they were secretly starting up with their current person before you broke up;

Why should you never do drugs? Will this story absolutely shock you?

Different tack: I don’t think you asked what you want to know, you asked what you’ve heard other people ask.

and so on.